Crying is your baby’s main way of communicating. Newborns and young babies may cry because they are hungry, tired, uncomfortable, wet, too hot or cold, or simply need to be held and comforted. Some babies cry more than others, and periods of frequent crying can occur even when a baby is otherwise well.
The important question is not only how much your baby cries, but how your baby looks and behaves between episodes. A baby who feeds reasonably well, has regular wet nappies, is gaining weight and settles at times is generally more reassuring than a baby whose crying is accompanied by other concerning symptoms.
What can I try when my baby is crying?
- Check whether your baby is hungry or needs a feed.
- Check the nappy and make sure your baby is comfortable.
- Try holding, cuddling or gently rocking your baby.
- Reduce noise, bright light and other stimulation if your baby seems overtired.
- Try a calm, consistent soothing routine rather than changing techniques repeatedly.
If you are becoming overwhelmed, place your baby safely on their back in a cot and take a short break while another trusted adult helps, if possible.
Could it be colic?
Colic is a term used for episodes of prolonged, intense crying in an otherwise healthy baby. It commonly becomes more noticeable during the early weeks of life and may be particularly difficult in the evening. It usually improves as babies get older.
There is no single test that confirms colic. A pediatrician may first check that feeding, growth and examination are reassuring and that there is no medical reason for the crying.
When should I call a pediatrician?
Arrange medical assessment if the crying is persistent, unusual for your baby, or you are worried about your baby’s feeding, growth or general behavior. It is also reasonable to seek advice simply because you are exhausted and need reassurance.
Seek prompt medical attention if crying is accompanied by:
- Fever or a baby who feels unusually hot or unwell.
- Repeated vomiting, particularly if it is forceful or unusual for your baby.
- A swollen or unusually firm abdomen.
- Poor feeding or a marked reduction in feeding.
- Fewer wet nappies or other signs that your baby may not be getting enough fluid.
- Unusual sleepiness, limpness, difficulty waking or reduced responsiveness.
- Breathing difficulty, a change in color, or any other sudden or significant change in your baby’s condition.
What if I am worried that I am not coping?
Persistent crying can be exhausting, particularly in the first few months. Feeling frustrated or overwhelmed does not make you a bad parent. Put your baby somewhere safe, step away for a few minutes and ask someone you trust to help if you can.
Never shake or hit a crying baby. If you feel you may lose control, get help immediately from another adult or an appropriate emergency service.
A reassuring point for parents
There is no need to feel that you have to solve every episode of crying yourself. If your baby’s crying is worrying you, a pediatric assessment can help distinguish normal crying from a problem that needs attention.
Related reading
- Newborn & Baby Care
- Breastfeeding Basics: Getting Started and Common Challenges
- Fever in Children: When Should I Call the Pediatrician?
This information is for general guidance and does not diagnose an individual child. Babies can become unwell quickly. If you are concerned about your baby’s condition, seek medical advice.